Love,
used, abused, misused, this word has been different to different people ? Love
we say is BLIND, but is it ? yes its BLIND without any misconception….. we just
happen to like after seeing or meeting or by a mere phone call or thro
emails… we just let go & let it happen, nothing really matters, nothing
makes sense, just be in love and forget the rest, we even forget our families,
who gives us birth and bring us up with great difficulties, passion, emotions
& sentiments, they invest in us more then anything can be measured in any
terms, yet when we are in love, we forget them, we ignore them, we don’t think
its necessary for them 2 know what changes cud bring in their life in the near
future, all that matters is US, WE, cause we are in LOVE ? we are even willing
to leave our parents, for what we call LOVE ? we just forget even our own
selves but only think, dream, visualize the other when we are in love, we don’t
even want 2 know what the other person is ? we just don’t bother or want 2 know,
important is when do we meet, how do meet, where do we meet ? how often and
when do we communicate, heaven is that mere touch, the smiles, the laughter, anything
& everything said becomes poetry and phrase ! anything else done is called
LOVE ? & time comes 2 such a situation that we feel we can no longer live
without each other one another ? and then jump to get married & we do ! And
how ? the vows of ‘Better or for worst’ comes later !
One
week, of this being in LOVE and getting married, the myth, the realities, the
truth, which was no sense at that time becomes now 2 see sense in each other,
reality bites ! not 2 know about each other much before, becomes with oh I did
not know u were like this ? communication is snapped & myth that LOVE is
BLIND comes true to the fore and stares HARD on the face like a mirror ? why I did
not know things ? its hard to understand the each others language with writing on the wall
of why & how becomes a daily part of life to be carried, for years 2 come of
compromises, With compromises comes children ? with children comes again
compromises ? it’s a full circle ? where has LOVE gone? where is the LOVE the
way it was ? bitter truth being we were BLIND….Love is there of course but hard
to see, it becomes ether & difficult to experience like before, to know if
we really love one another ? to say and hear I love you was like pure magic on
the ears, it felt like heaven once upon a time now becomes, how did I really loved
u ? life moves on and withers away turning those days and nights into years and
we just walk pass by with one another, hanging on with COMPROMISES when we didn’t
in the first place LOVE one another but or was it a mere infatuation ? mistaken for
love ?
One
mistake called infatuation of liking someone, somebody, is redundant all thro
our lives where we thought, assumed, dreamt, felt that we were in LOVE ? but then life has gone, just passed by, now we
just await and sit by the window, pondering, looking at others, feeling were we wrong ? or want 2 fall in Love all over again ?
